“Responsibility is accepting that you are the cause and solution of that matter”
Anonymous
We are 100% responsible for our lives, actions and results in our lives.
No one has the blame and no one has the praise.
Our thoughts and actions determine our results in our life.
Our life is the reflection of our thoughts and our attitude.
No one can change our life, only we can change our life.
If we want to change what we are putting in, then we must change what we are putting in.
If we want to do something which we never did before, then we have to become someone we are never before.
” The price of greatness is responsibility”
Winston Churchill
Taking Little more responsibility
If you were to take a little more responsibility for your life, what will you do?
It could be something like waking up early in the morning, going to bed early, watching less tv, taking less caffeine, few minutes of exercise every day, being nice to your friends and family members.
There’s no one to be blamed :
Accepting the fact that we are 100% responsible for our lives, could change our entire lives.
If we are responsible for everything in our lives, then no one has to be blamed.
You may wonder “what for the unexpected events” that come in our way. Even there, by our thoughts, we attract those events into our lives.
Even after those unexpected events, we are in control of our response for those events.
” We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility of our future.”
Taking 100% Responsibility for Your Lives –
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“Man needs difficulties because they are necessary to enjoy success”
Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam
Every one of us have problems , difficulties, obstacles in our lives. It may be a financial issue, health issue , family and relationships issue and more….
Many people get stuck when they are confronted with the obstacles and they couldn’t able to find a way out.
The successful people are those no matter what comes up in their path, they never stop. They don’t consider quitting , it is not an option.
The only option is to look forward and go forward. They manage to find a way out.
Learn from your obstacles/failure/disappointment
Problems comes to instruct us not to obstruct us.
Problems are opportunities
Look within your difficulties ” it may contain a life changing lesson”
Ask this question ” what is the valuable lesson contained in this setback and how can I use it to improve my lives?
“Why it has happened to me”?
“What I can do to overcome this obstacle and make sure it doesn’t happen again”?
“From tonight onwards, take complete control of your life. Decide, once and for all, to be the master of your fate. Run your own race. Discover your calling and you will start to experience the ecstasy of an inspired life.”
~ Robin Sharma
Our happiness in our life is directly linked to the amount of control we have over our life. We feel happy, excited when we are in control of our life.
We either feel stressed out or unhappy when we are not in control of our life.
our job is to take control of our life by accepting complete responsibility, by doing the necessary things to bring our life in balance.
We could take control of our life in 4 ways
1. start doing something new
One of the way we could take control of our lives is by start doing something new which could benefit us.
It may be something as simple as waking up early in the morning, reading books, doing exercise or yoga, start investing money, learning a new skill, and something life-changing like starting a new business or changing your carrier.
List any 5 new activities which would you like to start doing this week/month/year?
2. Start doing something more of
Start doing more of what you are already doing that is beneficial to you.
We all have many habits and activities that we do every day which are making our lives easier and reaping rewards.
Our job now is to find out the things we are already doing that benefit us and start doing more of it.
It could be something like increasing the time of exercise we do every day, spending more time on our projects.
List any five activities that you do every day that benefit you the most? And start doing more of it.
3. Start doing less of
Every day we indulge in certain activities that make less or no significant changes in our lives.
These activities including watching long hours of Television, too much intake of unhealthy foods, spending too much time unproductively.
These are all some of the activities which we could consider start doing less of.
List any 5 activities that you could consider start doing less of every day?
4. Stop and replace it
These are all activities that are no longer beneficial to you in the short term as well as in the long term.
The best thing you could do is to consider abandoning or replacing it with something that could benefit you in the short term and long term.
List any 5 activities in your routine that you could consider stopping doing? And consider replacing it with any other productive activities or habits.
“Control your thoughts. Decide about that which you will think and concentrate upon. You are in charge of your life to the degree you take charge of your thoughts.”