To Win The Game of Life: Stay in the Game

It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.

Albert Einstein (1879-1955), physicist and developer of the theory of relativity
  • To win the game of life, to be successful in our lives, we must persist until we succeed.
  • Norman Vincent Peale once said,” It is always too soon to quit”.
  • We must persist in the phase of obstacles and failures, to become successful in what we do.
  • What most people tend to do, they always quit too soon. That’s not the way, how it works.
  • If one thing doesn’t work, try the other way. Try, try, try until you get the desired results.

Fall seven times and stand up eight.

Japanese Proverb
  • In reality, problems and difficulties come to make us better people.
  • As the saying goes,” when the going gets tough, tough gets going.”
  • If we stay long enough and work hard enough Success is guaranteed.
  • Instead of quitting too soon, take your time to think 🤔 about how to succeed in this endeavor.
  • Make a plan.
  • Think of whose advice you will need.
  • What are all the resources required and how to use those resources?
  • Think about the possible hurdles and roadblocks in your pathway and how can you overcome them.
  • Remember the 6P’s of Management, proper prior planning prevents poor performance.

Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Thomas Edison (1874-1931), inventor of the light bulb

The Universe Conspires to make you a Big Success

“Once you make a decision, the universe will conspire to make it happen”

Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • The universe in which we are living always wants us to succeed in every area of our life.
  • It is we who are denying our good through our thoughts, visualization, words, and actions.
  • Always focus on what do you want rather than what you don’t want.
  • The universe doesn’t know the difference between want and doesn’t want.
  • If you say, I don’t want debt and don’t wonder when you get more of those. Instead, say I want to be rich.
  • There is no negativity in the universe, it only prevails in our minds.

  • Always use positive affirmations
  • If you want a healthier body, say ”  I am happy and joyfully living my life through my slim, fit and energetic, and healthy me”.
  • Not like ” I don’t want to weigh 159lbs”. I want to lose weight.
  • Because every thought you think and speak is also an affirmation.
  • The universe is always listening to your thoughts, words, and your actions. Every cell in your body is also listening to your thoughts, words, and your actions.

“I live in an abundant universe where anything is possible”

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  • But when you say exactly what do you want to the universe. The universe will take care of the how’s.
  • But you need to hold on to your thought of what you want long enough and be willing to take the required action.
  • The moment you say something I want, it’s already yours and the universe will conspire to get that thing for you or to reach that level of success you desire.
  • Expect to be surprised all along that way.
  • Sometimes you will be knocked down in that journey and that’s part of the universe plan to get that place or thing even faster.
  • No matter what happens, never lose hope. It is also part of the plan.
  • Always dream big dreams, hold on to your vision and Take action.
  • Never settle for anything less than what you are capable of.
  • The Universe Conspires to make you a big success.

When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.

Paulo Coelho

Let’s count on our Successes

Take advantage of each small success. In this way, you close the gap between what you want from life and what it is giving you.

Deepak Chopra

Small success is also a success

  • Many of us most of the time focus on our failures rather than Success.
  • Most of the time, We always look back in our lives and think about the thing which we did poorly or could’ve done better.
  • For many of us, Success means making a million, becoming a best selling author, owning our dream house, car, or taking an international vacation.
  • The thing is When we are focused only on the material things as successes we often lose sight of little Success in our life.
  • To become a successful businessman, you do not need to build a business like Apple or Microsoft. Owning a small business and running it successfully is still a success. We often fail to notice this kind of Success in our life.
  • We often consider only the big Success as Successes, not the small ones.

It is important to recognize the small Successes

Rafael Nadal

Write down your 100 success

  • Success includes everything that makes you feel good.
  • Can you list 100 Successes in your life so far?
  • These Successes can be anything little or large. It can be anything as small as winning a prize in your school for a running race or it may be an appreciation received from your teacher or it may be getting a promotion in your job, winning a match for your cricket team or football team. It could be anything that comes to your mind.
  • As you start to write 100 Success in your life, you will feel very happy about yourself in that process.

Refer back to your list

  • And keep this Success list with you and look back often.
  • These Successes will make you feel worthy.
  • It will build confidence in you and will create positive energy in you to attract more success.
  • Keep on adding more Successes to your list.
  • The reality is we had more Successes in our life than failures, only we fail to acknowledge them.
  • Focus on the positive, cherish every moment of your life.
  • We got only one life to live, let’s make it a fabulous one.

Life is made up of small pleasures. Happiness is made up of those tiny Successes. The big ones come too infrequently. And if you don’t collect all these tiny Successes, the big ones don’t really mean anything.

Norman Lear

Listen to the most recent episode of my podcast: Ep:9: you can always attract more money

What’s the meaning of life?

The meaning of life is whatever you ascribe it to be. Being alive is the meaning

Joseph Campbell
  • Somewhere I read there is no meaning to life except the meaning we give to it.
  • I often found it true in my life, there is no meaning to life, except the meaning I give myself to it.
  • If we think we are here to live a happy, healthy and prosperous life and hold on to that thought and that becomes the truth in our lives and we can live that way
  • The other way is also true. If we think negatively, pessimistically about our life and that also becomes the truth for us.

I know it sounds corny, but I think the meaning of life is to do what you love and be happy.

  • The ultimate aim of mankind is to live a happy life and our job in this lifetime is to live it.
  • Do what you love to do. Be how you want to be and live how you want to live. Do what makes you feel good.
  • If you are having difficulty living a joyous life, try to find a way to do it.
  • Follow other successful people and do what they have done and repeat it.
  • Read books, listen to audio courses and take courses on personal success.
  • What we repeatedly think and speak becomes the truth for us.
  • So, Why don’t we think happy, healthy, and joyous thoughts most of the time?
  • Think about it.

For the meaning of life differs from man to man, from day to day and from hour to hour. What matters, therefore, is not the meaning of life in general but rather the specific meaning of a person’s life at a given moment.

Viktor E. Frankl

Listen to the most recent episode of my podcast: Ep:8 : Stop comparing yourself

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Stop comparison: If you want to compare, compare everything

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” 

Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • Many of us have the habit of comparing ourselves with others and because of that we often feel, that we are not good enough.
  • We often consider ourselves as not as successful as someone else or consider ourselves as not so talented, smart, rich, fit, clever, beautiful as someone else.
  • Often we compare ourselves with celebrities, sportspersons, our friends, and relatives.
  • The truth is that we all are whole and complete. We are always perfect. we are the perfect outer expression of our inner self.
  • We are already enough and we have enough but we deny this fact.

 “Comparison is the death of joy.”

Mark Twain
  • We cannot compare ourselves with others and that’s not fair.
  • Because each of our life experience is not the same.
  • If you are comparing yourself with someone smarter than you, then probably you should compare everything, compare your life situations with theirs, compare your life experiences with them, compare the kind of childhood they had with yours, and so on.
  • Someone who is doing better than you in any area, probably doing not so well as you in other area in which you are doing great.

Do yourself a favor

  • One of the kind things you could do to yourself is please, don’t compare yourself with anyone in this world, because you are unique, you are incomparable.
  • Instead, love yourself and accept yourself as exactly as you. You don’t need anyone’s approval, you approve of yourself.
  • Your talents and abilities are unique.
  • Get rid of all comparisons instead focus on your strengths and abilities.
  • You are not here to compare or compete, you are here to create.

“The reason we struggle with insecurity is that we compare our behind the scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.” 

Steve Furtick

Here’s a show for you… Goals episode of Get Success”

EP:006 :Goals Get Success

In this episode i will be sharing some information about setting and achieving goals .
  1. EP:006 :Goals
  2. EP:005:Balancing your life
  3. Ep:004 : Your biggest obstacle is your biggest gift
  4. Ep:003: Successful life Successful you
  5. Ep:002: What is a business