Stop comparison: If you want to compare, compare everything

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” 

Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • Many of us have the habit of comparing ourselves with others and because of that we often feel, that we are not good enough.
  • We often consider ourselves as not as successful as someone else or consider ourselves as not so talented, smart, rich, fit, clever, beautiful as someone else.
  • Often we compare ourselves with celebrities, sportspersons, our friends, and relatives.
  • The truth is that we all are whole and complete. We are always perfect. we are the perfect outer expression of our inner self.
  • We are already enough and we have enough but we deny this fact.

 “Comparison is the death of joy.”

Mark Twain
  • We cannot compare ourselves with others and that’s not fair.
  • Because each of our life experience is not the same.
  • If you are comparing yourself with someone smarter than you, then probably you should compare everything, compare your life situations with theirs, compare your life experiences with them, compare the kind of childhood they had with yours, and so on.
  • Someone who is doing better than you in any area, probably doing not so well as you in other area in which you are doing great.

Do yourself a favor

  • One of the kind things you could do to yourself is please, don’t compare yourself with anyone in this world, because you are unique, you are incomparable.
  • Instead, love yourself and accept yourself as exactly as you. You don’t need anyone’s approval, you approve of yourself.
  • Your talents and abilities are unique.
  • Get rid of all comparisons instead focus on your strengths and abilities.
  • You are not here to compare or compete, you are here to create.

“The reason we struggle with insecurity is that we compare our behind the scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.” 

Steve Furtick

Here’s a show for you… Goals episode of Get Success”

Power of Focus Get Success

Focus on what do you want
  1. Power of Focus
  2. Never settle for anything less than what you are capable of
  3. EP:005:Balancing your life
  4. Ep:004 : Your biggest obstacle is your biggest gift
  5. Ep:003: Successful life Successful you

“Quitting: May be an option for others but not for you”

” I hated every minute of training, but I said, ‘Don’t quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion.

Muhammad Ali
  • How is your journey towards your ultimate goal?
  • How do you feel?
  • Do you enjoy the progress or do you feel stuck?
  • Does your destination seem too far?
  • Would you like to keep going? or
  • Would you consider quitting?
  • One of the important reasons that some people are more successful than others is that they practice persistence, stay calm and keep going despite obstacles and temporary failures.
  • They keep going even when there is no guarantee of success.
  • When you embark are on a journey to achieve something that you love to do ,which means a lot to you, when you believe that you are about to make a change in the world.
  • You will not give up easily.
  • Giving up, anyone can do that but to keep going even when there are no signs of Success, not everybody can do that.
  • Which takes tremendous willpower, self-discipline, and courage.

“Winners never quit and quitters never win”

Vince Lombardi
  • Failures are like feedback and obstacles are like opportunities, course correct, keep going, never stop.
  • You are unstoppable, no one can stop you, only you can stop you.
  • Often the obstacle between you and your goal probably is you.
  • Overcome your insecurities and fears and doubts and make way for your Success.
  • If plan A doesn’t work try plan B, be flexible in the process, make necessary changes in your plan as you progress.
  • Always focus on the results, not on the process.
  • Whenever you feel overwhelmed, you feel exhausted or whenever you consider quitting relax a bit, take a rest but don’t quit.
  • Quitting is something not meant for you that may be for others.

” It’s always too early to quit”

Norman Vincent peale

“you can always attract more money “

“You create your thoughts, your thoughts create your intentions and your intentions create your reality”

Wayne dyer

We may be blocking our own prosperity

  • Many of us have a certain belief about money which primarily includes money that can only earn through hard work, money doesn’t grow on a tree, should save for a rainy day.
  • All these thoughts are just blocking the flow of financial abundance in our lives.
  • It doesn’t mean that you should not work hard or save money for the future and you should be lavish in terms of spending money. 
  • What does this means is that we limit our abundance through our thoughts and beliefs.
  • Even though if we work hard, doing everything we could to prosper.
  • When we have a  belief that says money can only be earned a certain way and it is not fair to earn money without much effort or hard work, we can only earn a certain level of income, We don’t deserve to be rich.
  • When we continue to believe these thoughts.
  • All these thoughts of ours, become the truth for ourselves and it gets manifests in our lives and  We wonder why we couldn’t prosper.
  • Louise hay in her wonderful book ” you can heal your life” says, the universe is the source, and the way we receive our money is a channel. It could be through our job, business, or whatever.
  • If we believe, we truly deserve financial abundance, the universe will open up new channels for us and there are numerous channels out there and the universe is the only source.

“Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it”

Jack canfield

Our thoughts creates our reality

  • With our thoughts, we create our reality.
  • If we can hold a brighter vision of our future self. Certainly, we can have it in our life.
  • Seeing is not believing, believing is seeing.

Use positive uplifting affirmations

  • The use of positive affirmations will help us to feel good and attract things more quickly and easily.
  • You could use positive affirmations like ” I have all the money I need”, ” I deserve and accept the very best in my life, I am financially abundant.
  • Since we become what we think about most of the time, our affirmations will become the truth for us and it gets manifests in our lives.

Ask for what you want and be prepared to get it.”

Maya Angelou

Watch “what is a business?” on YouTube

one of the best investment you could ever make: Invest in yourself

 An investment in knowledge pays the best interest

Benjamin Franklin

  • By the way, I learned that one of the best investments one could ever make in their life is to invest in themselves.
  • Personal growth Experts like Brian Tracy in his books suggest that we could at least invest 3% of our income back into our personal growth that is in upgrading our skills, which includes buying and reading books, listening to educational materials, and taking courses in our field.
  • The more we invest in ourselves, the better results we get in our personal life as well as in our professional life, and thereby we could ensure a brighter future and have peace of mind.

The worlds best know this very well

  • Most of the Successful people in the world invest a lot of time and money in upgrading their skills.
  • Because they know very well, knowledge is power and also we now live in an information age. The more information we have over any particular field helps us to make better decisions and to get better results.
  • They take time reading  books and listening to educational materials almost every day and also attend courses and seminars regularly to upgrade their skills more precisely,
  • It could be over business communications, public speaking, business development, sales, or even about having a healthy relationship and lifestyles or anything beneficial.
  • The Importance of personal growth cannot be overemphasized. If you invest your time and money wisely back into yourself, you will be astonished by the results and progress you will make in the years ahead.

The best advice I ever got was that knowledge is power and to keep reading

David Bailey

” Time is gonna pass anyway”

” It is not enough to be busy…. The question is what we are busy about?

Henry David Thoreau
  • Time is gonna pass anyway, this is one of the most important pieces of advice I ever learned in my life.
  • Yes, it is very obvious, time is gonna pass anyway, we cannot control time, we cannot go back in time.
  • All we can do is use the time wisely or we could use time over any productive works.
  • If we can understand this principle, we will not waste our time.

Nature is neutral

  • Time doesn’t care who you are.
  • If you use your present time productive, invest time in yourself by reading books, listening to educational materials, take courses to improve skills both personally and professionally.
  • You will have a wonderful life very soon. You will start to see the results soon.

” There is only one thing more precious than our time and that’s how we spend it on”

Leo Christopher

What if

  • If you don’t use your time wisely, spend too much time on unproductive jobs.
  • If you don’t take time to invest yourself by improving your skills.
  • You will remain the same or even worse than now in your future.

Short-term pain, long-term gain

  • Imagine your ideal future 5 years from now. If your life were perfect in every sense how it could be?
  • Start working towards your ideal future and let’s use our time wisely.
  • Pay the price in the now for your ideal future…
  • ” Because time is gonna pass anyway”

“Time isn’t the main thing, it’s the only thing”

Miles Davis

“Persistence is the key”

“Energy and persistence conquer all things”

Benjamin Franklin
  • Persistence is the mark of a superior person.
  • In your pursuit of greatness, you may get knocked down by unexpected events, debt, lack of resources, obstacles, and more.
  • These are all part of the process. But Don’t stop trying and working towards your goal.
  • Every setback, every obstacle is an opportunity to learn and grow to become a better person.

“Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fail.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • Jack canfield was turned down by “144 publishers” for his books “chicken soup for the soul series”
  • Later he went on to become a ” New York Times bestseller”
  • So far he has sold more than “500 million” copies of his books. Holds the Guinness Book of records.
  • What would have happened, if he has stopped trying after the 143rd rejection”.
  • Most people often do this. Before you quit, just give one more try.
  • Because you never know how close you are to succeed.
  • Persistence is the key to success.
  • Persistence until you succeed.
  • Good works are never wasted.
  • Follow your heart.
  • “Greatness is yours.”

“Press on. Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.”

Ray Kroc